Thursday, January 29, 2009

25 random things about me


Brent Gillentine tagged me with this on Facebook, so I thought I'd share it here too . . . Consider yourself tagged!

1. I had both my babies with midwives, and the second at home.
2. My first daughter's placenta is buried under a peach tree, and my second's under a fig.
3. I have an MFA in dance but am lazy about using it.
4. I love lemon verbena.
5. I lived in Holland for 3.5 years of high school.
6. I adore the smell of clementines in winter, when you open them and the juice squirts out.
7. I am overcoming my addiction to coffee.
8. I am jealous of my sister's sense of style.
9. I have always wanted to swim with a whale shark.
10. My hubby and I met at a Quaker camp in Maine, and were married there.
11. My oldest daughter didn't sleep through the night until she was 2.
12. I used to be a lifeguard trainer, and trained Tim the summer we met.
13. I used to teach dance at an all girls prep school in Greenwich CT.
14. I am obsessed with any plant that has blue flowers. (borage, morning glory, blue hibiscus)
15. I used to have a bellybutton ring.
16. I have always wanted to go to Fiji, to a resort where peacocks stroll the lawns.
17. My husband and I love Dr. Who.
18. When I was in college Melissa and I performed a dance buck naked, illuminated by two candles that we held.
19. I cannot resist the dollar aisle at Target.
20. Laurel had a pleural effusion when I was pregnant with her, and we didn't know if she would be able to breathe when she was born.
21. I once found a baby owl on my lawn.
22. I love Barack Obama.
23. I would have twenty more chickens if Tim would let me.
24. Sometimes my life feels like a game of "How Many Things Can You Keep Alive At Once???"
25. I am addicted to Craigslist and to searching for real estate for other people.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

teething hurts, and some sisterly love




Poor Laurel has been suffering from some nasty chompers. They are just on the edge of cutting all the way through, but have this little slip of skin that just won't get out of the way. Ouch.

Got the ladies matching Valentine's dresses. Never bought them anything matching before. Kinda cute. They both wear them in their own way, though. So different they are!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

obama babies






Sara and Adrienne and Grover and Mandy and Daisy came over to watch the inaugural festivities with us today, and we all planted a tree in our new little orchard after. An amazing, amazing day. I really loved the benediction. I've posted the text below. Funny, heartening. Wonderful.




Text of Rev. Lowery's inauguration benediction

Text of the benediction by Rev. Joseph Lowery during President Barack Obama's inauguration, as transcribed by CQ Transcriptions:

God of our weary years, God of our silent tears, thou, who has brought us thus far along the way, thou, who has by thy might led us into the light, keep us forever in the path we pray, lest our feet stray from the places, our God, where we met thee, lest our hearts drunk with the wine of the world, we forget thee.

Shadowed beneath thy hand, may we forever stand true to thee, oh God, and true to our native land.

We truly give thanks for the glorious experience we've shared this day.

We pray now, oh Lord, for your blessing upon thy servant Barack Obama, the 44th president of these United States, his family and his administration.

He has come to this high office at a low moment in the national, and indeed the global, fiscal climate. But because we know you got the whole world in your hands, we pray for not only our nation, but for the community of nations.

Our faith does not shrink though pressed by the flood of mortal ills.

For we know that, Lord, you are able and you're willing to work through faithful leadership to restore stability, mend our brokenness, heal our wounds, and deliver us from the exploitation of the poor, of the least of these, and from favoritism toward the rich, the elite of these.

We thank you for the empowering of thy servant, our 44th president, to inspire our nation to believe that yes we can work together to achieve a more perfect union.

And while we have sown the seeds of greed — the wind of greed and corruption, and even as we reap the whirlwind of social and economic disruption, we seek forgiveness and we come in a spirit of unity and solidarity to commit our support to our president by our willingness to make sacrifices, to respect your creation, to turn to each other and not on each other.

And now, Lord, in the complex arena of human relations, help us to make choices on the side of love, not hate; on the side of inclusion, not exclusion; tolerance, not intolerance.

And as we leave this mountain top, help us to hold on to the spirit of fellowship and the oneness of our family. Let us take that power back to our homes, our workplaces, our churches, our temples, our mosques, or wherever we seek your will.

Bless President Barack, First Lady Michelle. Look over our little angelic Sasha and Malia.

We go now to walk together as children, pledging that we won't get weary in the difficult days ahead. We know you will not leave us alone.

With your hands of power and your heart of love, help us then, now, Lord, to work for that day when nations shall not lift up sword against nation, when tanks will be beaten into tractors, when every man and every woman shall sit under his or her own vine and fig tree and none shall be afraid, when justice will roll down like waters and righteousness as a mighty stream.

Lord, in the memory of all the saints who from their labors rest, and in the joy of a new beginning, we ask you to help us work for that day when black will not be asked to get in back, when brown can stick around ... when yellow will be mellow ... when the red man can get ahead, man; and when white will embrace what is right. That all those who do justice and love mercy say Amen.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

dance class take two, and laurel the lunchboxer

Laurel has taken to toting about the two lunchboxes she found in our red hutch. Oh, so cute.
Supergirls!
Paying such close attention! Aurora's teacher really is lovely.

Monday, January 12, 2009

sunday afternoon at the park





Sara watched the kids yesterday so Tim and I could go see Benjamin Button. It is just fantastic! We both left feeling renewed, newly in love with our lives, our children, each other. What more can you ask from a work of art, really? It is heartbreaking in all the right ways, and is a film that truly honors life. There is so much self-referential crap out there, that just spins in on itself and doesn't take you anywhere, doesn't change you. But this will. Go see it! And the thing I love the best is that the people in this film are not cruel to one another, despite sometimes impossible circumstances. Basic human goodness triumphs. I know that's not too sexy in the box office. And that real "artists" scoff at that goody-two-shoes business, but man, in my life, be good or be gone. We just don't have that much time, people. And every second you are given is a gift. I remember when I was in grad school and the folks who got the most accolades were those making the dark stuff, ripping their mouths off on a box, colliding into one another in anger. And our world is full of violence, yes. But hell, if the only good art out there is the stuff that wallows in it, then I'll take bad art that makes me happy any day and leave it at that. (Not that this movie makes you "happy," exactly. But it leaves you with the kind of deep longing and melancholy that reminds you how much it all does matter, and how fleeting it is.)

We went down to our local park after, watched the light glinting off the water (or what's left of it in this drought), and enjoyed each other's company.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Aurora's first dance class!

(they'll get those booties underneath them eventually!)

So, Aurora has been begging me for a while for a dance class, and I did in fact give in. I guess I was just a little hesitant about sending her down the same path I tread . . . and about affirming the princess leanings . . . but I went ahead. And I think it was a good choice, because man, dancing four year-olds are cute. She is enrolled in a ballet/tap/tumbling combo class at our local Y once a week. Her teacher is Miss Stephanie. And Aurora says she loves her class. "Dancing isn't so hard after all, mom," she says . . . I guess I might beg to differ . . . but I'll let her live with her sweet illusions for a while. Enjoy the video! (the noise in the background is from the gymnastics class next door--I am watching thru a window.)

Saturday, January 3, 2009

some shots from yankee land

Now that we are finally beginning to simmer down from the holidays, I can post a few of my favorite shots from our trip to the Northeast. Enjoy!

Aurora arranging her stocking stuffers--
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Sue in a big poncho, Christmas day . . .
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I love the studiousness with which they are going after this puzzle:
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Learning birds:
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Stroller beauty:
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Diner in Sandy Hook, CT, not too far from Andy's new home:
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Aurora excited about watching her Shrinky Dinks shrink!
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Dang, she's cute:
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Baby girl and mama:
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A sunken kite in the pink light:
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The gang:

And yet another pretty shot (this one by Timmy), of that one last sunset:
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